Has your ex been acting weird lately? Are you looking for clues and signs that your ex wants you back? If yes, you’re definitely in the right place.
You see, in many cases when a relationship ends, there is one person who doesn’t really want things to finish. It often happens that one person is still feeling the same things, but unfortunately still gets rewarded with an “EX” title. Regardless of your feelings, sometimes you can’t keep the person you want the most, and that sucks.
But sometimes, just sometimes, your ex really wants to get back with you and start afresh or make right what was done wrong in the first place.
But, they will never tell this to you, and do you know why? Because they are afraid that you don’t feel the same way they do, and that is why they fear rejection. But, not everything is black and white. (There is still hope for you.)
You see, they might be avoiding telling you directly what’s on their mind and that they want to get back together, but they sure as hell cannot avoid showing it with their actions! Their actions reflect their subconscious, and that’s how you can know for sure what’s on their mind.
Now, doesn’t it sound great to be able to read their mind and to know what they really want? Imagine if you could get a quick guidebook that would tell you what your ex is thinking or feeling.
We might be a little bit late with that guidebook. Even if you didn’t get it at the beginning of the relationship, we’re giving it to you now. Here are 10 simple guidelines and signs that will tell you if your ex wants you back!
1. Recalling the old times
If you’re still in touch with your ex, that’s a big sign that things are not over between the two of you. Another obvious sign that your ex wants you back is when they recall old memories. Usually, if your ex is trying to make you remember all the nice things you went through, it’s them waving a white flag.
Recalling the old times is surely one of the biggest signs your ex wants you back because if he doesn’t, he wouldn’t bother reminding you of any of the great things you did together. It means they are trying to alter your perspective by helping you delete all the bad things from the past. They are giving up on fighting you.
It also means they want you to forget why you broke up in the first place. When they make you remember all those times you laughed together or the stupid things you did that got you in trouble, they are simultaneously awakening the feeling of love you had towards them in those moments. And once your barriers have been breached and you’ve stopped being angry, the mission your ex had is accomplished.
2. Working on them self
You must’ve heard the saying, “The only mission your ex has after you’ve broken up is to get better looking.” It could be the case that they are trying to look better to get someone else. It could also be that they finally decided to take your advice and go to the gym. It may be that they finally decided to change their job or their looks.
If your ex is changing the things you didn’t really like so much, that’s a really big telltale sign that they want you back. It is because they hope that you’ll notice it and express a desire to come back to them.
Summarized, they are preparing a new terrain, so they can persuade you that it’s safe for you to come back. They are telling you that they are working hard on themselves, and they are determined to change everything that has ever annoyed you or something you didn’t quite like on them.