Does he like me or am I being used? How can I tell he likes me or is interested in me? All these and more go through the minds of ladies. Every woman has been through this hurdle- You sit and try to figure out if this dude is game or in for life. We all worry about our relationships sometimes, especially when our man sends out confusing signals.
There are plenty of signs that reveal whether your man is in love with you. So many, in fact, that we’ve written down 20 of them here for you! We’re pretty sure most women will be quite excited about number 15, even if their man doesn’t do this for them yet.
Whether it’s a massive party, an intimate gathering, dinner with friends, or a family reunion, your man has the uncanny ability to make you feel like you’re the only one in the room. To be clear, this doesn’t mean he’s being rude to anyone else or ignoring them – it’s just that he’s so in tune with your needs and he loves being an attentive partner to you.
He’s always making sure your glass is full, your needs are met, and you’re having a good time. And he doesn’t forget to send flirtatious glances across the table either. Somehow, he makes you feel like you’re in your own romantic little world, even if there are thousands of other people around. This is no small effort, so he’s obviously in love with you if he treats you this way.
If there’s one thing you know after dating your man for some time, it’s how to press his buttons. And we’re not talking about the good type of buttons! You know what bothers him, even those tiny things that nobody else would even notice. In general, most couples avoid getting on each other’s nerves if they can. But when you’re in a mad mood, it’s sometimes hard to control.
But, if your man is truly in love, he won’t even get annoyed when you attempt to rile him up. And if he does get annoyed, he goes out of his way to make sure he doesn’t show it. Because he’s so in tune with you, he understands that you’re probably just having a bad day. He won’t let it get to him unless you start repeatedly annoying him for no reason.
It seems to go on all the time: men just happen to forget important dates, such as birthdays and anniversaries. It doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you if he forgets these things, but you know that if he remembers it means he’s definitely head over heels in love. Your man is never without flowers in hand and a killer date night plan when it’s a special occasion.
The fact of the matter is that it’s not terribly difficult to ensure you remember an important date, however, you may need to set up some external reminders. The fact that your guy has gone to the effort to set alarms or add these occasions to his calendar shows that he really doesn’t want to miss them. We think you’ll definitely agree that this is a sure sign of a man in love.
If your man pushes back every other responsibility in order to cater to you, then you know you’re his top priority. We’re not saying he’s under your control or anything – it’s just very clear that he recognizes what the important things in life are. He can run errands any old time, but he might only get one shot to meet you for a coffee that day.
You know he’s in love when he prioritizes your time together and prioritizes your needs, even if it inconveniences him. We’re sure if you’re in love you do the exact same thing for him in return. This is what strong relationships are built on: realizing that your partner is the most important person in your life. If this describes your guy, hold on to him tight, he’s a keeper!
Following on from our previous point about priorities, we thought we’d add another point in the same vain. Do you ever call your man and ask him to do you a favor when you just know it’s so far out of his way or super inconvenient? You know he’s in love if he immediately agrees and doesn’t even mention the long list of other things he has to do that day.
Bear in mind that if he does go out of his way for you it should be without complaint. If he does it, but doesn’t stop whining about it, it kind of defeats the point of doing something nice for you. If he accepts it and doesn’t even have a hint of frustration in his tone of voice, you know he’s 100 percent in love.